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10 Steps to Draw Closer to Allah

It should be the desire of every Muslim to draw nearer and closer to Almighty Allah the most compassionate and the most merciful. By drawing closer and near to Allah we gain his help in every aspect of our lives in this world and to be merciful to us so that we may gain mercy in the hereafter in order to enter Jannah in the next world.

When we call upon him he would answer our calls and when we ask of him for anything he would give it to us and when we draw nearer to him then our sincerity and intentions will enable us to become closer to him.

So we should strive to draw nearer to Allah, the Glorified the Exalted, who is the majesty of honour and generosity and the giver of peace, the most high and the most honoured.

So what can we do to draw closer to him? The following are 10 steps for us to draw closer to our Almighty Allah:

1. Fulfilling obligatory duties and abstaining from prohibited matters

The Prophet (May Allah bless him and grant him peace) has guided us. And Allah, the Glorified and the Exalted, has guided us how to draw near to Him. As He said According to Hadith Qudsi:

“Whoever draws near to Me among those drawn near by fulfilling what I have made obligatory on them….

You do not draw near to Allah except by fulfilling the obligatory duties which Allah has made obligatory on you; (that is) the obligatory duties from the obligatory duties (Faraid) such as Prayers, and Zakat (obligatory charity), and Hajj, and Fasting and being good to Parents and all these obligatory duties on you draw you near to Allah, the Glorified and the Exalted. And the faraid (obligatory duties) are the first things that draw you near to Allah. You do not reach the door of nearness nor do you reach to the presence of nearness except by fulfilling the obligatory duties. This is the first thing that draws you near to Allah, the Glorified and the Exalted, and you are in His Presence.

So the first thing we need to do is fulfil ALL of our obligatory duties and abstain from that which Allah and his messenger have forbidden us from.

2. Nawafil prayers (superogatory prayers)

Allah says in Hadith Qudsi:

….and My slave keeps on coming closer to Me through performing Nawafil (voluntary deeds) until I love him, so I become his sense of hearing with which he hears, and his sense of sight with which he sees, and his hand with which he grips, and his leg with which he walks; and if he asks Me, I will give him, and if he asks My Protection, I will protect him..." [Bukhari]


A Source of Elevation for you

The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam) said: "Ask (anything)." Rabi'ah said: "I ask of you to be your companion in paradise." The Prophet said: “Anything else?" Rabi'ah said: "That is it." The Prophet (sallAllahu alayhi wasallam) said to him: "Then help me by making many prostrations (i.e., supererogatory prayers)." [Muslim]

Tahajjud

Allah Most High said, “Establish worship at the going down of the sun until the dark of the night, and (the recital of) the Qur’an at dawn. Lo! (the recital of) the Qur’an at dawn is ever witnessed. And some part of the night awake for its recital, as voluntary worship for you. It may be that your Lord will raise you to a praised estate.” [Qur’an, 17: 78-79]

Abu Hurayra (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace be upon him, his family, and companions) said, “The best prayer after the obligatory prayers is the night prayer.” [Muslim]

Abu Umama al-Bahili (Allah be pleased with him) reports that the Messenger of Allah (blessings and peace be upon him, his family, and companions) said, “Hold fast to night prayer, for it was the way of the righteous before you, a way of drawing closer to your Lord, an expiation for wrong deeds, and a shield from sin.” [Tirmidhi, and others] In some narrations, there is an addition, “And it repels sickness from the body.”

And because night vigil time is the best of times for voluntary worship and prayer, and the closest a servant is to his Lord.

So let us make the habit of reading as many Nawafil prayers as we can for more prayers means more prostrations and one is truly the closest to Allah in prostration.

….bow down in prostration and bring yourself the closer (to Allah)." (96:19)

3. Zikr (remembrance of Allah) and glorification of Allah

"…Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest." (AR-RAD)

Remembrance of Allah indeed is the greatest virtue.(29:46).

O ye who believe, remember Allah much. And glorify Him morning and evening (33:42-43)

Remembrance of Allah is the foundation of all good deeds. Whoever succeeds in it is blessed with the close friendship of Allah. That is why the Prophet, peace be upon him, used to make remembrance of Allah at all times. When a man complained, "The laws of Islam are too heavy for me, so tell me something that I can easily follow," the Prophet told him, "Let your tongue be always busy with the remembrance of Allah." [Ahmad].

Remembrance of Allah the best of deeds

The Prophet, peace be upon him, would often tell his Companions, "Shall I tell you about the best of deeds, the most pure in the sight of your Lord, about the one that is of the highest order and is far better for you than spending gold and silver, even better for you than meeting your enemies in the battlefield where you strike at their necks and they at yours?" The Companions replied, "Yes, O Messenger of Allah!" The Prophet, peace be upon him, said, "Remembrance of Allah." (Tirmidhi,Ahmad)

Abu Musa Al-Ash`ari (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (PBUH) said, "The similitude of one who remembers his Rubb and one who does not remember Him, is like that of the living and the dead.'' [Al-Bukhari and Muslim].

Zikr can be done anywhere and anytime

A person may ask, ‘How can we do Zikr all the time whilst we have so many things to do in life such as we go to work, feed the family, pay bills, etc.? Well, the answer to this is that, firstly, it is the Sunnah of Allah's Messenger to work and feed the family which is rewarded by Allah and, secondly, that when a person is working or at school or wherever a person may be this does not mean that he should stop remembering Allah while he is working, while he is serving his customers or while he is programming his computer.

In fact the heart of the believer should be attached to Allah's remembrance throughout his day to day activities such that he protects himself from falling in love with the materials and temptations of this world and that his love for Allah and his Messenger becomes stronger and stronger as time goes by. When a person begins to remember Allah all the time it is then that he becomes conscious of his actions.

Remember: in a place where people are oblivious to dhikir, remembrance of Allah is like being steadfast in jihad, when others are running away. (Targhib, p. 193, vol. 3 ref. Bazar and Tibrani)

"... And the men and the women who remember Allah much with their hearts and tongues. Allah has prepared for them forgiveness and a great reward (i.e., Jannah).'' (33:35)


4. Calling upon Allah in Dua (supplication)

Allah the most compassionate says in the Holy Quran, "Call on Me. I will answer your prayer, but those who are too arrogant to serve me will surely find themselves humiliated in Hell" (40:60).

Allah the Exalted, has said: "And your Lord says: Pray unto me: and I will hear your prayer" (Quran 40:60),

"Call upon your Lord Humbly and in secret" (Quran 7:55),

"When My servants question thee concerning Me, I am indeed close (to them): I listen to the prayer of every suppliant when he calleth on Me" (Quran 2:186),

"Is not He (best) who listens to the (soul) distressed when it calls on Him, and who relieves its suffering." (Quran 27:62)

Dua’s are never wasted

Aisha radhiallaahu anha said, "No believer makes Dua and it is wasted. Either it is granted here in this world or deposited for him in the Hereafter as long as he does not get frustrated."

Allah’s anger at those who don’t make dua

In fact, it is even wrong to never make Dua, "Whosoever does not supplicate to Allah, He will be angry with Him." [Saheeh Jaami`as-Sagheer #2414]

Dua is a weapon for the believers

Rasullullah is reported to have said, “Dua is the weapon of a Muslim”.

Dua for ones brother in his absence

"The supplication that gets the quickest answer is the one made by one Muslim for another in his absence." [Abu Daw'ud and Tirmidhi]

So let us build a close relationship with Allah by making much dua to him. He loves it when his slave calls upon him and it angers him if his slave does not call upn him.

Let us have full hope that our dua’s will be accepted and if you think they won’t they know Allah is keeping the rewards for you in the hereafter and those rewards are so great that one would wish that none of there duas were excepted in this world just so that one can gain all the rewards for their duas in the next world.

5. Building a close relationship with the Qur’an

Recite the Holy Qur’aan as much as we can for It will come as an intercessor for its reciter’ on the Day of Judgement [Muslim]
Learn the Qur’an and recite it, because the example of one who learns the Qur’an, reads it and recites it in Tahajjud is like an open bag full of musk whose fragrance permeates the entire place. And the person who has learnt the Qur’an but sleeps while the Qur’an is in the heart is like a bag full of musk but with its mouth closed.

Virtues of reciting the Qur’an

“Whoever reads a letter from the Book of Allah will receive a hasanah (good deed) from it (i.e. his recitation), and the hasanah is multiplied by ten. I do not say that Alif-Laam-Meem is (considered as) a letter, rather Alif is a letter, Laam is a letter, and Meem is a letter.” [At-Tirmidhi, Ad-Darimi]

“There is no envy (acceptable) except in two (cases): a person whom Allah has given the Qur’an and recites it throughout the night and throughout the day. And a person whom Allah has given wealth, that he gives out throughout the night and throghout the day.” [Al-Bukhari and Muslim]

It was narrated that Abdullah ibn Mas’ud said: Whoever reads Tabarakallahi Biyadihil Mulk [i.e. Surah al-Mulk] every night, Allah will protect him from the torment of the grave. At the time of the Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) we used to call it al-mani’ah (that which protects). In the Book of Allah it is a surah which, whoever recites it every night has done very well. (an-Nasa’i)

Abdullah Ibn ‘Abbas and Anas Ibn Malik (Ra) reported that the Prophet (Peace be upon him) said, ‘Whoever recited Surah Zilzilah (99) would get the reward of reciting half the Qur’an. Whoever recited Surah al Kaafirun (109) would get a reward as if reading a quarter of the Qur’an. Whoever recited Surah al Ikhlas (112) would get a reward as if reading one third of the Qur’an’. (At-Tirmidhi 2818/A)

Reading, understanding and implementing the Qur’an in our daily lives

The virtues of reciting the Qur’an are too numerous to list. In order to get closer to Allah we need to recite the Qur’an, understand it and implement it in our daily lives.

We should make a target of reading at least a chapter a day. If one can’t manage that then at least half a chapter. If one still can’t manage that then recite at least quarter of a chapter or even a page a day. However much we can manage we should try to recite each day with its meanings and implement what we learn into our daily lives.

Reading a little each day is better than reciting a lot once in a while. We should build a close relationship with the Qur’an which is in fact building a close relationship with Allah!

“Verily Allah raises nations by this book (the Qur’an) and puts down (i.e. destroys) others by it.” [Muslim]

6. Keeping good company

One of the most important things we must do, which sadly many people neglect, is that we should avoid bad company. People we should avoid taking as friends those who speak too freely, who miss Salah, who do not dress modestly, who backbite, slander etc.

The company of such people is poison; just even sitting and talking with them will lead one to commit sins. Just as a person who sits for a long time with a perfume seller begins to smell nice, and a person who sits by a gutter cleaner begins to smell awful, similarly a person who spends time in the company of the wicked eventually gets affected badly by them.

Rather, we should seek out pious friends who fear Allah taala and who have the qualities of humility, charity, compassion, modesty and knowledge. If we sit with them we will always benefit and they will be a means for us to get closer to Allah taala!

The Prophet (saws) said, “The case of the good companion and the bad companion is like that of the seller of musk and the blower of the bellows (iron-smith). As for the seller of musk, he will either give you some of the musk, or you will purchase some from him, or at least you will come away having experienced its good smell. Whereas the blower of the bellows will either burn your clothing, or at least you will come away having experienced its repugnant smell.” [Al-Bukhaaree and Muslim]

Remember: “All friends will be enemies of one another on that Day (Day of Judgment) except those of the virtuous.” (al-Qur’an 43:67)

7. Having fear and hope in Allah

Indeed, no one despairs of relief from Allah except the disbelieving people. (Surah Yusuf 12:87)

One must be hopeful of Allahs mercy and forgiveness and fearful of His punishment. It is this fear that should lead one to seek Allahs forgiveness with hope. Allah says:

Know that Allah is severe in punishment and that Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. (Surat al-Maaidah 5:98)

In the above verse, Allah gives us reason to fear because His punishment is justly severe, as well as good reason to have hope, since He is the Most Forgiving and Merciful. There should be a balance between fear and hope and not too much or too less of one or the other.

We should always remain between fear and hope. For, the right and the approved kind of fear is that which acts as a barrier between the slave and the things forbidden by Allah. But, if fear is excessive, then the possibility is that the man will fall into despair and pessimism.

On the other hand the approved state of optimism is of a man who does good in the light of the Shari'ah and is hopeful of being rewarded for it. Or, conversely, if a man committed a sin, he repents sincerely, and is hopeful of being forgiven. Allah (swt) said:

"Verily, those who believed, and those who migrated and fought in the way of Allah, it is they who are hopeful of Allah's mercy. And Allah is very Forgiving, very Merciful." (Al-Baqarah, 218)

In contrast, if a man indulges in sins and excesses, but is hopeful that he would be forgiven without doing anything good, then, this is self-deception, mere illusion and false hope. Abu 'All Rowzbari has said, "Fear and hope are like the two wings of a bird. If they are well balanced, the flight will be well balanced. But, If one is stunted, the Right would also be stunted. And, to be sure, if the two are lost, the bird will soon be in the throes of death." Allah has praised the people of hope and fear in the following verse:

'Is one who worships devotedly during the night, prostrating himself or standing, fearing the Hereafter, and hoping for the mercy of his Lord (is equal to him who doesn't do these things)?' (Al Zumar, 9)

Hope then also demands fear. If that was not the case, one would be in a state of false security. Conversely, fear demands hope. Without that it would be despair.

Fear and hope, both should be equally proportioned in our hearts, in our worship, and in our dua to Allah. Allah says:

Call out to Him with fear and hope. (Surat al-Araaf 7:56)
They forsake their beds to call their Lord in fear and hope. (Surat as-Sajdah 32:16)

8. Voluntary fasting for the pleasure of Allah

Fasting in general and voluntary fasting in particular is a great worship. Fasting is not restricted to Ramadhan, but it is an act of worship that can be [and should be in some cases] performed at any time and at any place except when not recommended. Indeed, it is a worship that draws the believer closer to Allah and closer to perfection.

Fasting Mondays and Thursdays:

`Aa'ishah said: The Messenger of Allah, salla Allahu alaihi wa salam, used to fast Mondays and Thursdays". [An-Nasaa’i; Sahih]

Abu Hurairah reported that the most the Prophet, salla Allahu alaihi wa salam, would fast would be Monday and Thursday. He was asked about that and he said: "The deeds of people are presented to Allah on every Monday and Thursday. Allah forgives every Muslim except for those who are deserting each other. He says: "leave them for later." [Ahmad; Hasan]

Intention for voluntary fasting

As opposed to Ramadan, the intention does not have to be made before dawn. The person can intend fasting [and start fasting] after dawn any time [even after noon] given that he did not eat anything. `Aa'ishah said : The Prophet, salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam, came to us one day and said, "Do you have any [food]?" We said "No". He said: Therefore, I am Fasting". [Muslim and Abu Dawood]

Fasting three days of every month(White days):

Abu Tharr Al-Ghefari said: "The Messenger of Allah, salla Allahu alaihi wa sallam, said "O Abu Tharr! if you fast three days of every month, then fast the 13th, the 14th and the 15th [these are call the al-ayaam al-beedh, the white days]". [Ahmad, an-Nasaa'i and at-Tirmithi; Sahih]

“Fasting and the Qur’an will intercede for the slave on the Day of Resurrection. Fasting will say: ‘O My Rabb! I prevented him from food and desires, so accept my intercession for him.’ And the Qur’an will say: ‘I prevented him from sleep during the night, so accept my intercession for him.’ He (sallallahu `alayhi wa sallam) said: ‘And they will (be allowed to) intercede.’” [Ahmad, at-Tabarani, Al-Hakim, Sahih]

So let us get closer to Allah by fasting Mondays and Thursdays or at least 3 days every month on the 14th,15th and 16th. If we leave something for the pleasure of Allah then we will get MUCH greater in return!

9. Sincerely repenting to Allah

Allah says: O son of Adam, if your sins were to reach the clouds of the sky and you would then seek My forgiveness, I would forgive you.

When a person sins and then sincerely turns to Allah for forgiveness, one will find Allah ready to accept his repentance and to forgive him, as this verse indicates:

And whoever does a wrong or wrongs himself, but then seeks forgiveness from Allah, he will find Allah forgiving and merciful. (Surat an-Nisaa 4:110)

Everyone commits sin and does wrong, but Allah is always willing to forgive and He always gives them a chance to repent and seek His forgiveness. A believer should never forget the fact that Allah is so forgiving. If Allah had willed, He could have held everyone accountable for his or her sins, but He has decreed that He shall allow His servants to seek His forgiveness and that He shall in fact forgive who and what He wills. In fact, Allah commands that His servants seek His forgiveness:

And seek Allahs forgiveness. Certainly, Allah is Forgiving, Merciful.
(Surat al-Muzzammil 73:20)

Repentance is an act, which purifies the soul and brings the servant closer to Allah. It puts the heart at rest from guilt. It protects one from falling prey to his desires and lusts and increases his faith.

We must ask ourselves this question: Would we be willing to forgive anyone who hurts us and disobeys us constantly as easily as Allah is Able to forgive? Most probably, the answer would be no. But our Creator is the Most Kind and He is the Most Perfect.

Lo! Allah is a Lord of Kindness to mankind, but most of mankind give not thanks. (Surat al-Baqarah 2:143)

In this Hadithi Qudsi, mankind is encouraged to seek Allahs forgiveness and repent, but there are five conditions of repentance, which must be met for ones repentance to be accepted. The first and most important is that the act of repentance be sincerely for Allah alone. Secondly, the person must feel remorse and guilt over his actions so much so that he wished he had never done it in the first place. The third condition is that the person must immediately cease performing the wrong and sinful act. Fourthly, the repentant person must have a firm intention to never commit the sin again. And lastly, the person must repent before it is too late, meaning before death approaches.

However, there is a condition. One must not associate any partners with Allah, which is shirk. And Allah does not forgive shirk and if one dies without believing in Allah alone as ones Creator, then he will be doomed to the Hellfire for all of eternity. So, Allah emphasizes the importance of calling on Him alone. He has no and needs no partners, associates, wives, children, etc. There is no god, but Allah. None forgives sins except Him, so one who is seeking forgiveness should seek it only from Allah.

Allahs forgiveness and mercy is far greater and vaster than the sins of the creation. One must always have trust and hope in Allah in both good times and bad times and especially when seeking Allahs forgiveness. And the believer who calls out to his Lord for forgiveness demonstrates his true weakness and that he is totally dependent on the Creator.

When one confesses his sins to Allah and sincerely repents with hope in Allahs mercy, the heart should come to peace and the soul should feel rest. When a person has hope, he has no reason to despair because it only leads to destruction. Allah gives hope to all, especially those who despair that there is no reason to despair because Allah is the Most Merciful of all those who show mercy. Allah praises those who repent and turn to Him:

And those who, when they commit a lewd act or wrong themselves with evil, remember Allah and ask forgiveness for their sins and who forgives sins except Allah? And they do not persist in what (wrong) they were doing while they knew it. For such, the reward is forgiveness from their Lord and Gardens with rivers flowing through, wherein they shall abide forever. How excellent is the reward of the doers (of good)! (Surah Ali Imran 3:135-136)

10. Having good manners, character and being humble

Many of us think that “a perfect Muslim” is simply one who is correct in the observance of the salah (ritual Prayer), the fasting, the zakah (payment of a certain portion of one’s wealth to the poor), and the Hajj (pilgrimage to Makkah). This indeed is not the case.

If the ritual observances do not help the person to be humble, virtuous and truly God-fearing, then he or she is not a real Muslim. A Muslim should be good and just in dealing with others, no matter their religion, and take special care to keep away from all the shameful and sinful things Allah (God) has forbidden.

One can never get close to Allah by being arrogant, full of pride and having a bad character and manners. Those who have humility and are humble and have good character and manners are the closest to Allah and Allah raises their ranks in the hereafter.

The superiority of good character:

Hadrat Abu Darda, may Allah be pleased with him, relates that the Holy Prophet Muhammad, may the peace and blessings of Allah be upon him, said, “Nothing is heavier in the scales of a believer on the Day of Judgement than his good behaviour. Allah detests a person who is obscene and shameless”. (Tirmidhi)

Having humility and being humble:

The Prophet (PBUH) said: "He who was humble for the sake of God by one degree, God (SWT) would then elevate them to a degree till they reach the uppermost of high Orders, and he who was arrogant to God (SWT), God (SWT) would then lower him for a degree till he reaches the lowest of low Orders", (Narrated by: Muslim (Hadeeth: 6535).
Al-Nawawi said:

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “And no one humbles himself before Allaah but Allaah will raise him (in status).”

Humbleness is to know the value of oneself, to avoid pride, or disregarding the truth and underestimating people. As the Prophet sallallahu `alaihi wa sallam said, according to Muslim and others, "Al-Kibr is rejecting the truth and looking down upon people" [Muslim, Tirmidhi and Abu Dawud].

Humbleness is for one who is important and significant and he fears to gain notoriety or to become too great among people. Humbleness is that one should humble himself with his companions.

Humbleness is to humble oneself to one who is below you. If you find someone who is younger than you, or of less importance than you, you should not despise him, because he might have a better heart than you, or be less sinful, or closer to Allah than you. Even if you see a sinful person and you are righteous, do not act in arrogance towards him, and thank Allah that He saved you from the tribulation that He put him through. Remember that there might be some riyaa' or vanity in your righteous deeds that may cause them to be of no avail, and that this sinful person may be regretful and fearful concerning his bad deeds, and this may be the cause of forgiveness of his sins.

Humbleness is that your deed should not become too great in your eyes. If you do a good deed, or attempt to get closer to Allah ta`ala through an act of obedience, your deed may still not be accepted, "Allah only accepts from those who have taqwa (fear of Allah)." (Surat al-Maida: 27)

Humbleness is that, when you are advised, if Shaytaan calls you to reject the advice, you must negate him. Because the purpose of advice is that your brother points out the defects that you have.

The arrogant never gives credit to anybody or mentions good about someone, and if he needed to do so, he would also mention five defects of that person. But if he hears somebody reminding him about his own defects, he will not be flexible nor comply due to his inferiority complex. This is why it is among man's moral integrity to accept criticism or comment without any sensitivity or discomfort or feelings of shame and weakness.

We can summarize the teachings of Islam about the Muslim character in the following list:

• Be truthful in everything, don’t lie.
• Be sincere and straightforward, don’t be hypocritical.
• Be honest, don’t be corrupt.
• Be humble, don’t be boastful.
• Be moderate, don’t be excessive.
• Be reserved, don’t be garrulous.
• Be soft-spoken, don’t be loud.
• Be refined and gentle in speech, don’t curse and use foul language.
• Be loving and solicitous to others, don’t be unmindful of them.
• Be considerate and compassionate, don’t be harsh.
• Be polite and respectful to people, don’t be insulting or disrespectful.
• Be generous and charitable, don’t be selfish and miserly.
• Be good natured and forgiving, don’t be bitter and resentful.
• Share and be content with what Allah has given you, don’t be greedy.
• Be cheerful and pleasant, don’t be irritable and morose.
• Be chaste and pure, don’t be lustful.
• Be alert and aware of the world around you, don’t be absent-minded.
• Be dignified and decent, don’t be graceless.
• Be optimistic and hopeful, don’t be cynical or pessimistic.
• Be confident and have deep faith, don’t be doubtful and wavering.
• Be spiritually oriented and not materialistic.
• Be confident of the mercy of Allah, don’t be despairing and lose heart.
• Be diligent and vigilant of your duties, don’t be negligent.
• Be thankful to Allah and constantly pray to Him, don’t be forgetful of His innumerable blessings.

Finally as the righteous say, "The love of Allah is the axis around which all good revolves." If you fall in love with Allah, and then strive to be true in your love--in accordance with the way of the Beloved of Allah (Allah bless him and give him peace), then you'll find nothing but increasing light and contentment in your life.

And Allah alone gives success.

amalkanlah..

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…1. Bismillahirrahmanirrahim: pada tiap-tiap hendak melakukan sesuatu. 


2. Alhamdulillah: pada tiap-tiap habis melakukan sesuatu.

3. Astaghfirullah: jika tersilap mengatakan sesuatu yang buruk.

4. Insya' Allah: jika ingin melakukan sesuatu pada masa akan datang.

5. La haula walaquwwata illa billah: bila tidak dapat melakukan sesuatu yang agak berat atau melihat sesuatu yang buruk.

6. Innalillaah: jika menghadapi musibah atau melihat kematian.

7. Lailahaillallah: bacalah sepanjang siang dan malam sebanyak-banyaknya.


amalkanlah selalu moga-moga kita tergolong dikalangan orang yang terpilih oleh Allah…Sabda Rasulluah siapa yang menyampaikan satu ilmu dan orang yang mengamalkannya maka dia akan beroleh pahala walaupun sudah tiada.

Sabarlah duhai hati...la tahzan kerana dunia..

Assalamualaikum..

Selamat pagi yang naik mataharinya.Namun begitu hujan mulai turun menangisi kehidupan.Moga apa yang dilakukan, akan medapat rahmat dan kasih sayang dariNya.

Seperti apa yang berlaku atas diri ni,harap dapat bersabar dan tabah di atas segala dugaan yang sering menimpa.Mungkin ada hikmah terlahir dari setiap pengalaman yang memerihkan.Akan saya janlani kehidupan ini dengan melakukan kebaikan tanpa henti-henti dan jemu sehinggalah sampai pada waktu.

Duhai teman yang dikasihi,ketahuilah Allah takkan membiarkan hamba2Nya terbeban dengan setiap dugaan yang menimpaNya.Kerana ada ganjaran pahala yang dikurniakanNya jika kita benar2 ikhlas kepadaNya..

Sabarlah dan ikhlaslah dalam melakukan amal kebaikan..Moga ianya memuhasabahkan diri ini dan juga buat rakan2 yang berkunjung blog ini.Sampaikanlah juga pada rakan2 lain yang masih alpa dengan cinta dunia.

Sabarlah duhai hati..Mungkin Allah mahu menguji diri ini kerana Allah sayang padaku..Jika Allah tak menguji langsung hamba2Nya yang menjalani hidup atas muka bumiNya..Mungkinkah Allah hilang cintaNya pada hambaNya itu..Dan  kuyakin Allah selalu sayang padaku..

Moga Allah selalu bersama saya dalam meniti kehidupan yang semakin mencabar...La tahzan kerana dunia...

 

Assalamualaikum ya akhi wa ukhti.. Sama-samalah kita mengamalkan tasbih suci memuji Ilahi setiap pagi.. Semoga Allah SWT memelihara kita dari dosa..

Assalamualaikum ya akhi wa ukhti semua..arju an akuna insyallah sihat wa afiat maa usratuhum..insyallah..huhu..cakap arab da..dah lama tak cakap arab.masa blaja dulu penahla..dengan kawan2.ni kawan2 dah jauh..sedeynya.rindu bertemu pun ada..harap dapat jumpa kembali atas izinNya..

malam2 begini takde apa nak buatnya selain mengingati Allah dan selalu berdoa agar diberi kesihatan yang berpanjangan.walaupun dilanda banyak gosip liar..haha..takdepun.walaupun ditimpa dugaan,harap diri ini dapat bersabar.kerna sabar itu sifat mukmi yang sejati.Insyallah..

hari ni saya nak tunjukkan anda serta berkongsi kegembiraan buat para pencinta meong meong..saya amat menyukai miow dan anda semua tahukan,kucing adalah haiwan kesayangan Rasulullah saw dan juga sahabat baginda,Abu Hurairah ra..Buat pencinta meong ucuk..sayangi meong anda..jika anda jaga meong elok2..bagi makan dan tempat tidur kat meong..mungkinkah akhirat kelak meong akan membantu kita dikala kesusahan ..Sayangilah kucing anda...kerana mereka pun mahu bergantung hidup dengan manusia..

Ni meong ucuk2 saya..

aksi tidur yang manja...

Ungu - Syukur (Alhamdulillah) | VC Trinity

Alhamdulillah..kusyukuri semua.Terima kasihMu Ya Allah atas indahnya hidup....Ucaplah alhamdulillah atas nikmat yang Allah kurniakan kepada kita semua..Dan bersyukurlah selalu...

Assalamualaikum...

Mencari jati diri kita sebagai muslim..

Selagi boleh berubah..kita cuba berubah untuk jadi muslim yang sejati disisi Ilahi...

13 Kebiasaan Wanita Pakai Tudung… Tapi…(PEDOMAN KHAS UNTUK MUSLIMAH..DENGARKANLAH..

1. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung dah anggap pakai tudung tu tutup aurat, Tapi masih nampak lengan, baju ketat-ketat, gaun belah-belah, nampak dada dan macam-macam lagi. Mereka ni faham konsep aurat ka?

2. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung penuh dengan fesyen, Tapi fesyen nampak rambut, sanggul tinggi, bentuk rambut jelas, tak tutup dada. Sekali lagi, mereka faham konsep aurat ka?

3. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung ni satu tuntutan kewajipan, Tapi tak pula solat. Sebab tu agaknya timbul ayat “Aku tak pakai tudung pun solat apa, dari orang pakai tudung”. Err, kita boleh pilih-pilih hukum yang nak ikut ya?

4. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung ni kena cakap bersopan santun, Tapi ada juga yang liar. Sebab tu timbul ayat”Perempuan pakai tudung bukannya baik juga”. Err, baik ni ditentukan dengan tudung ka?

5. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung dah mak suruh, sekolah wajibkan, Tapi tiada yang ambil tahu kenapa kena suruh pakai tudung. Sebab tu ramai buka tudung tempat yang tidak “dinampak”. Tuhan tak nampak agaknya kan?

6. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung sal dia Islam, Tapi kenapa perkara Islam yang lain Wajib tidak dibuat? Sekali lagi, kita boleh pilih-pilih hukum ka?

7. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung ni sal terpaksa, Tapi kenapa bila orang paksa buat benda tak elok dia ok jak, tapi kena paksa benda baik dia komplen?

8. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung selalu orang cakap dituntut, Tapi yang tukang cakap ni free hair. Ades, no komen =.=”

9. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung ni cakap mereka dah terima hidayah, Tapi yang cakap tunggu hidayah ni, nak tanya rahsialah, macam mana nak tahu rahsia ajal yek?

10.Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung ni bila ada event, macam turun naik mahkamah syariah, bila ada kematian, Tapi, kenapa tak ambil iktibar musibah yang melanda ni?

11.Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung ni memang dah perfect, cantik, aurat tutup habis, Tapi, bila part naik motor, atau kepanasan, atau nak buat apa-apa benda extreme (kali la), banyak yang menampakkan betis, menyinsing baju sampai lengan. Sekali lagi tapi lain keadaan, itu keadaan darurat yang membolehkan buka aurat ka?

12.Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung memang ayu, suara lemah lembut, sejuk hati lelaki, Tapi ada yang suara lemah lembut yang bahaya, manja seyh, pergaulan dengan lelaki macam dia tu pun lelaki, belum cakap yang dating-dating berdua lebih baik lagi.

13. Kebiasaan wanita pakai tudung bila buat benda tak elok, kena cakap macam-macamla sampai orang cakap pakai tudung atau tak pakai tudung sama saja, Tapi, kenapa yang bercakap tak ambil inisiatif untuk perbaiki diri, atau menasihati mereka berkenaan daripada mengumpat menambah dosa bertangki-tangki benda buruk yang dah berlaku?

* DUHAI MUSLIMAH,BUKAN CARANYA KALIAN MAHU IKUT SELAIN DARI SYARIAT ALLAH..MAKA CARILAH YANG FARDU DAN DISYARIATKAN..INSYALLAH BERBAHAGIALAH KAMU KERANA MENGIKUTIN JALAN-JALAN ALLAH YANG BENAR...

RENUNGAN PAGI JUMAAT

Jangan bangga sangat dengan pakaian yang cantik dan mahal,kerana pakaian terakhir kita kelak adalah KAIN KAPAN

Jangan bangga sangat dengan kenderaan mewah,kerana kenderaan terakhir kita adalah VAN JENAZAH dan PAPAN KERANDA

Jangan terlalu seronok dengan kamar tidur yang empuk dan selesa kerana tempat tidur kita yang terakhir adalah di LIANG LAHAD

Jangan pula ego dan bongkak kerana mampu memiliki rumah mewa umpama istana,ingatlah bahawa rumah terakhir kita adalah KUBUR BERTIANG DUA

Jangan terlalu megah dengan pangkat dan darjat kebesaran,kerana bila sudah tiada nanti,kita akan dapat gelaran ARWAH

Jangan terlalu bangga  dan berlagak dengan wajah yang tampan atau cantik jelita,kerana bila kita mati kelak,wajah itu akan menjadi RANGKA/TENGKORAK

rENUNG-RENUNGKANLAH DIRI ANDA DAN JUGA DIRI SAYA...

Izinkan diri ini berbicara sebelum mata terlelap

Bismillahirrahmannirrahim...

Assalamualaikum semua pengunjung blog saya ini.diharap semuanya sihat bahagia dengan izin dariNya..

sebelum mata ini bisa terpejam untuk melayari samudera mimpi,izinkan saya berkongsi sedikit ilmu untuk anda semua.

sebelum tidur,jangan lupa berwuduk iya..dan bacalah surah al waqiah..baca al ikhlas..bertasbih bertahmid bertakbir memuji kebesaran Allah...

banyakkan beristighfar memohon ampun kepadaNya jika ada khilaf padaNya..

jangan dilupakan sebelum terlelap..maafkanlah orang lain yang ada berbuat salah pada kita..maafkanlah walaupun kesalahan yang kita terima itu hanya sebesar kuman...jangan jadi orang sombong yg x bisa memaafkan orang lain,kerna kita bukanlah mulia..malah kita juga akan pergi kepadaNya..

berdoalah pada Allah agar hari esoknya lebih baik dari hari ini yang kadangkala mendukacitakan.harap esok adalah hari yang kita boleh buat seberapa banyak amal kebaikan....

semoga esok hari kita masih lagi diberi peluang untuk bernafas dengan nama Allah Yang Maha Agung.

selamat beradu...semoga ceria dipagi Jumaat yang mulia..

Biarkan aku jatuh cinta...

Terima kasih wahai Tuhanku
Kerna menyedarkan aku dari lamunan dunia
Bersyukur padaMu atas segala yang berlaku
Kujadikan ia satu hikmah agar dapat ku menjalani dengan tenang hati

Wahai Tuhanku
Izinkan aku bersimpuh kepadaMu
Memohon agar aka tak lalai dari bisikan nafsu
Biakan aku tenggelam dalam cintaMu
Setelah apa yang berlaku yang memerihkan hatiku

Wahai Sang Pencipta
Jagalah aku dari dunia dan seisinya
Jangan biarkan airmata mengalir kerana sesuatu yang tak pasti
Izinkanlah kesedihanku hanya kutujukan padaMu bukan makhlukMu
Kerana hanya Engkau aku beserah segala yang berlaku

Lupakanlah aku tentang permainan duniawi
Baik dari wanita mahupun harta yang melimpah
Biarkan aku jatuh cinta
Tetapi bukan yang tak pasti kucinta
Biarkan aku jatuh cinta
PadaMu Yang Maha Mencipta Cinta

Wahai Tuhanku Ya Ilahi Rabbi
Aku berserah hanya padaMu
Biarkan Engkau sahaja yang Maha menentu ke mana hidupku
Izinkan aku bersujud hanya padaMu..

** Moga kenangan lalu berlalu bagaikan debu yang tak berert..Janganlah Engkau biarkan aku sendiri meniti hari...

Bisikan hati ini...

Yang lepas jangan dikenang kerana kenangan lalu tak boleh disimpan..teruskan hidup dengan hati yang tabah dan tenang.Harapan semoga Allah menjadikan dia tetap jodohku walaupun diistikharahnya tiada wajahku muncul.Kuharap agar wajahnya berada diistikharahku dan aku inginkan dia menjadi zaujahku kerana aku mencintainya keranaMu Ya Allah...

walau tiada jodoh..dirikan terima qadak Ilahi seadanya..

mungkin Allah menjanjikan yang terbaik bagi diriku..

dan jika jodohku bukan dia.

harap jodohku ini adalah yang terbaik disisiMu Ya Ilahi..

especially for all Islamic girl and woman..

**WEAR HIJAB AND COVER YOUR AURAT.INSYALLAH,SAFE YOUR  LIFE..**

Opick - Astaghfirullah

Jaga 7 Sunnah Rasulullah S.A.W : Pesanan buat yang dihormati

"Cerdasnya orang yang beriman adalah, dia yang mampu mengolah hidupnya yang sesaat, yang sekejap untuk hidup yang panjang. Hidup bukan untuk hidup, tetapi hidup untuk Yang Maha Hidup. Hidup bukan untuk mati, tapi mati itulah untuk hidup. 

Kita jangan takut mati, jangan mencari mati, jangan lupakan mati, tapi rindukan mati. Kerana, mati adalah pintu berjumpa dengan Allah SWT. Mati bukanlah cerita dalam akhir hidup, tapi mati adalah awal cerita sebenarnya, maka sambutlah kematian dengan penuh ketakwaan. 

Hendaknya kita selalu menjaga tujuh sunnah Nabi setiap hari. Ketujuh sunnah Nabi SAW itu adalah: 

Pertama: tahajjud, kerana kemuliaan seorang mukmin terletak pada tahajjudnya. 

Kedua: membaca Al-Qur'an sebelum terbit matahari Alangkah baiknya sebelum mata melihat dunia, sebaiknya mata membaca Al-Qur'an terlebih dahulu dengan penuh pemahaman. 

Ketiga: jangan tinggalkan masjid terutama di waktu shubuh. Sebelum melangkah kemana pun langkahkan kaki ke masjid, kerana masjid merupakan pusat keberkahan, bukan kerana panggilan muadzin tetapi panggilan Allah yang mencari orang beriman untuk memakmurkan masjid Allah. 

Keempat: jaga solat dhuha, kerana kunci rezeki terletak pada solat dhuha. 

Kelima: jaga sedekah setiap hari. Allah menyukai orang yang suka bersedekah, dan malaikat Allah selalu mendoakan kepada orang yang bersedekah setiap hari. 

Keenam: jaga wudhu terus menerus kerana Allah menyayangi hamba yang berwudhu. Kata khalifah Ali bin Abu Thalib, "Orang yang selalu berwudhu senantiasa ia akan merasa selalu solat walau ia sedang tidak solat, dan dijaga oleh malaikat dengan dua doa, ampuni dosa dan sayangi dia ya Allah". 

Ketujuh: amalkan istighfar setiap saat. Dengan istighfar masalah yang terjadi kerana dosa kita akan dijauhkan oleh Allah. 

Zikir adalah bukti syukur kita kepada Allah. Bila kita kurang bersyukur, maka kita kurang berzikir pula, oleh kerana itu setiap waktu harus selalu ada penghayatan dalam melaksanakan ibadah ritual dan ibadah ajaran Islam lainnya. Zikir juga merupakan makanan rohani yang paling bergizi, dan dengan zikir berbagai kejahatan dapat ditangkal sehingga jauhlah umat manusia dari sifat-sifat yang berpangkal pada materialisme dan hedonisme.

Dalam Mihrab Cinta Full Movie

Lakonan oleh : Dude Herlino,Asmirandah,Meyda Sefira 

SINOPSIS FILEM INI

Syamsul (Dude Herlino) pemuda 20-an bertekad menuntut ilmu di sebuah pesantren(pondok agama)  di Kediri, meninggalkan kehidupannya yang cukup selesa. Disinilah  dia bertemu dengan Zizi (Meyda Sefira) puteri pemilik pesantren yang pernah ditolongnya ketika dirompak di dalam bas , yang dimana kejadian tersebut membuat hubungan mereka jadi rapat 

Dipesantren ini Syamsul dihalau oleh warga pesantren karena dituduh mencuri akibat fitnah sahabatnya sendiri Burhan (Boy Hamzah). Kemudian karena keluarganya sendiri juga tidak mempercayainya, hingga benar-benar membuat Syamsul menjadi seorang peragut.

Di tengah kekacauan dan kegelapan hidupnya ini Allah memberikan jalan baginya untuk bertaubat dan mempertemukannya dengan Syilvie (Asmirandah) seorang gadis yang solehah.

Apakah Syilvie nantinya yang akan berjodoh dengan Syamsul ataukah Zizi yang bakal jadi pendamping hidupnya?

Jom kita tonton movie ini..

Turut dimuatkan dalam filem ini lagu yang mendamaikan jiwa setiap pendengarnya.

 LIRIK LAGU BUNGA-BUNGA CINTA nyanyian Asmirandah dan Dude Herlino

Tak pernah terlintas di benakku

Saat pertama kita bertemu

Sesuatu yang indah tumbuh dalam gundah

Harum dan merekah

Tulus hatimu buka mataku

Tegar jiwamu hapus raguku

Memboncah di hati harapan dan suci

Menyatukan janji

Bunga-bunga cinta indah bersemi

Diantara harap pinta padanya

Tuhan tautkanlah cinta di hati

Berpadu indah dalam mihrab cinta

Dude:

Tulus hatimu buka mataku

Tegar jiwamu hapus raguku

Memboncah di hati harapan dan suci

Menyatukan janji

Bunga-bunga cinta indah bersemi

Diantara harap pinta padanya

Tuhan tautkanlah cinta di hati

Berpadu indah dalam mihrab cinta

Tak pernah terlintas di benakku

Saat pertama kita bertemu

Sesuatu yang indah tumbuh dalam gundah

Harum dan merekah

Memboncah di hati

Harapan dan suci

Dalam mihrab cinta